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Top Tips for Living in a Flatshare*


Picture this, it’s moments before you move into your flatshare, and you’re terrified. What will your flatmates be like? Will they be messy or clean? Will I make friends with them and fit in? If these are the questions running through your head, then fear not. I had the exact same thoughts before I went to university. As I have finished my first year at Bristol university, I’ve had the full experience of flatshares, and I had 9 other flatmates. I’ve learnt a thing or two from this year, so I’m here to share my top tips for a successful time in shared accommodation! Read until the end to learn how to find the perfect flatmates!

#1 Don’t be shy when you arrive

I was scared to speak to any of my new flatmates when I arrived, I didn’t go and socialise for a good few hours. But all you need to remember is they are all in the same position as you, they don’t know anyone either! Just introduce yourself and strike up a conversation to get to know them. Besides, you’re living with them for at least a year! I also recommend wedging your door open when you’re unpacking, this way people can pop in and say hello to you.


#2 Always clean up after yourself

When you’re living with other people in a flatshare, the most irritating thing is seeing a bowl of food still left out on the kitchen table, 3 days after they said “I’ll clean it tonight”. Do your bit and tidy up as you go along, especially the communal areas. Being a messy flatmate won’t put you in anyone’s good books!


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#3 Set some ground rules

Now this isn’t exactly something you want to bring up straight away, but it does need to be done. The amount of times my flat argued about whose turn it was to empty the bins or wash the floors was crazy! Come up with a little schedule for all the weekly jobs to keep your kitchen area clean and hygienic. Not having a schedule for these things is something I really wish our flat had done, it would have saved a lot of hassle! Make decisions between you all just to keep everything under control.


#4 Accept that you may not get on with everyone

My university provide a questionnaire to fill out prior to allocating our flats to get a better idea of who we were as people. However, even with this there were still some people I didn’t get along with too well, and that’s ok! If you don’t know your flatmates upon moving in, just do your best to get to know them, but don’t worry if you don’t click with everyone. If there is someone you aren’t particularly fond of, just be civil when you com across one another.

You may also like: My 1st year of university experience

#5 Live with flatmates you know you’ll love

If you aren’t sure about living with complete strangers, I highly recommend checking out, who are kindly sponsoring this post today. The team will do their upmost to find you the perfect flatmates to live with. It really is a fantastic website to easily sort flatshare accommodation with no hassle.

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I hope you enjoyed this post, have a lovely week!


Note: This post in sponsored but all opinions stated are my own. I only work with brands whose product/services I trust, use or believe would be beneficial to my readers.




  • Julia

    This sounds a lot similar to when you enter halls at university, I was in halls in my first year with 8 other people in my flat; let’s just say not all of them thought to follow the cleaning rule on this list. I feel like sharing responsibilities is really key to making a good living arrangement and liveable house with cleanliness. Great post!

    • voguemode

      Thank you! Yes this post was from my experience in university halls, the flat was constantly a mess, it drove me crazy! G;ad you enjoyed reading. x

  • Beth

    Such a good post! The people that don’t clean up after themselves are the ones everyone gets annoyed at the most! My experience of living in a flatshare was difficult sometimes but overall I had the best year and learnt so so much which I spoke about in one of my recent blog posts 🙂

    • voguemode

      Ah yes I totally agree! I am going into second year in september and Im so happy that Im just living with my boyfriend! Im glad you had a great time, so did I! Will give your post a read later on!

      Yasmin x

  • Chloe

    Great post! I found this pretty useful as I’m going into flatshare in October, so these tips will be put to good use from me!

    • voguemode

      Ah im so happy to hear that!! I hope it all goes great!

  • Alice

    That’s a great post, thank you for the website! How does it work? Is it for finding apartments too, or only flatmates?

    • voguemode

      Hi Alice! If you head to you’ll find that there are featured rooms being rented out by others looking for flatmates. You will also find that you can take a quiz to match with the ideal flatmates, which is a great feature! If you need anymore help just let me know.

      Yasmin x

  • Natonya

    Such a helpful post and even though I already graduated from my University, these rules still apply to living with others. I really like the schedule tip to keeping the place organized and sharing responsibilities. Nice work!

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    • voguemode

      Ah thanks so much! Yes these rules definitely apply to any flatshare living situation!

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